01-7-2012 at 5:23 AM

Nahhh. Having sexual dreams about men/woman/trees/whatever doesn`t mean you`re sexually interested in it. I believe that sexual dreams symbolize strong feelings for things or maybe even curiosity.<br /> I`ve had straight sex dreams even though I`m 100% gay. I don`t feel any sexual attraction towards women.

01-6-2012 at 10:38 AM

Such an interesting thread. :><br /> <br /> I have always known that I was bisexual. Always. I have liked other girls in the same way I liked boys since Elementary School. <br /> <br /> Only about 5 months ago did I first encounter another woman who was interested in me, and we spent quite a lot of time together, as friends and as partners. I would have stayed with her, were it not for her severe emotional attachment to her ex-girlfriend.<br /> <br /> Men are attractive, women are attractive. Emotionally, mentally, and physically. Gender is an outward appearance. Who a person is on the inside, their heart and their mind, is what I would fall in love with. So how a person\'s body is made makes no difference to me.

01-5-2012 at 11:43 PM

Late repsonse! Haha xP I wish this board was more active.<br /> <br /> PigeonApokolips32: Dreaming about another woman doesnt necessarily mean you are gay or anything like that. It may just be way of being fascinated by it or it\'s just a way to discover what you like with yourself. The girl you dream about could represent yourself. Also, I dont believe psychologists can agree on what dreams are for or mean so.. it could actually just mean nothing! Who knows xD. <br /> <br /> \"not sure how two girls do it together and I dont really wanna know. Lol\"<br /> <br /> -Aside from that comment sounding below age-level, it didnt offend me. Im just going to say that Clay said everything. ^-^;; <br /> <br /> Overall response to this topic:<br /> <br /> I never felt much of anything to either sex. I might think \"oh hes cute\" or \"she has a nice chest\" or something like that but never \"oh my gosh hes so hot!\" I think I\'m more about the companion side of the relationship with maybe a few occasional fun sessions. First person I actually loved was a girl. We started out as friends and maybe a year or two into our friendship I started to wonder just how much I liked her. I already knew she was gay herself and I would play flirt with her and soon it became less of a \'play\' thing. Just as I was getting close to telling her how I felt, she had a rough night and broke down crying to me and told me that she liked me. She was upset because she thought Id never return the sentiments. I tried to tell her otherwise but she didnt quite understand what I was saying at first. Once I got it into her head, we stayed up a long time just talking and getting comfortable in our next step. We were such good friends that it didn\'t even feel that different except for the more physical side. <br /> <br /> So the only person Ive been with was her and I wonder what itd be like to be with a guy but no guys ever showed interest so never had a chance to see. I guess its hard for me to imagine it and how Id like it when I never had even a chance or had a guy flirt with me. Its more of a curiosity and the whole baby aspect. <br /> <br /> I still got time to figure everything out but I have a hard time seeing past her. Only time will tell!<br /> <br /> *Tried to take out all apostrophes so ala doesn\'t throw a fit! D;

12-29-2011 at 9:58 PM

*sigh* Sorry this is such a late response. I forgot about this thread. But I am 18. I didn't mean to sound so rude about my comment, I didn't think about it, it was just my natural response. I should've thought about how it would make other people feel when I put it there and I apologize for anyone who I've offended.

12-19-2011 at 11:36 AM

hahaha thank you clay xD

12-19-2011 at 2:00 AM

"(not sure how two girls do it together and I don't really wanna know. Lol)"<br /> <br /> Girls are abit more limited when it comes to basic sex<br /> They can do oral, [mutual] masturbation, "scissoring" and using strap-ons.

12-19-2011 at 1:30 AM

"(not sure how two girls do it together and I don't really wanna know. Lol)."<br /> <br /> Uhh. This is the 18+ board. For those of us who are 18+.

12-15-2011 at 2:23 AM

I gotta go with Ravenwolf89 on what she said. I'm straight, I've questioned my sexuality before when a girl in 8th grade whispered to her friend that I came across a lesbian because in gym class I kept getting the basketball for her whenever it would bounce away (being friendly of course). I think women are very beautiful (even some that have plastic surgery done to them can be beautiful although most end up totally distorted and uglier than before they got the procedures done). The curves, the figures. I like to draw women if I'm drawing people (which I rarely draw because I'm better with drawing animals but whatever, women are better to draw (for me)). When I think about it right now, doing anything sexual with a girl doesn't appeal to me. It kind of creeps me out. Haha!<br /> <br /> But I have, however, had a few really strange dreams where I've done sexual things to a girl or a girl has done sexual things to me but nothing beyond foreplay things (not sure how two girls do it together and I don't really wanna know. Lol). Makes me wonder why I'd have dreams like that when I'm straight and know for sure that I am. I also kind of have some sort of fascination with one of my best friends (who I've known since Kindergarten). She's beautiful and one of the dreams I've had, had her in it and I was making out with her. My boyfriend used to have a crush on her before we ever met or started dating. I dunno......she used to be a quiet, reserved girl but then she changed and is more daring and bold. Since she met her boyfriend. Since I last hung out with her in high school. I like the new side of her though. It's very daredevilish and it's wonderful >:3

11-15-2011 at 5:28 AM

I'm gay, I've always known I'm lesbian, but when I was a teenager I tried to be 'normal' in the sense that I tried to like guys in an intimate way. I've been with girls, been with guys, and I have to say that girls feel right and my partner is my world sexually, emotionally, mentally. She is my best friend and my life partner. So go with who feels right, don't base it on the sex of someone, and whatever you choose you'll be okay and you'll be right.

09-13-2011 at 6:00 PM

I question myself a lot... never been with a girl, but I am definetally bi-curious, if not bisexual.

09-8-2011 at 1:04 PM

Everyone always assumed I was bisexual. I consider myself straight but I still like to check out girls. But when I think about doing anything sexual with them I just get grossed out. I dont really like females in a sexual sense... I just find them amazing and beautiful. It's more an appreciation of the female form... not sexual at all.

05-12-2011 at 10:57 PM

... I double posted on accident :-/ The edit page didn't have a back button. I guess manually going back is a bad call.

05-12-2011 at 10:56 PM

I used to question myself because everyone else questioned me. I wondered if they were right. Then I realized they were nuts and didn't know me. I am straight and always have been straight. The thought of any kind of relationship with a female makes me shudder. <br /> <br /> Everyone always thought I was gay because I am a huge supporter of gay rights, never wear girl clothes, and never did ANYTHING with the girls. Just felt awkward to me. Never understood why girls do half the things they do. I was never really pushed by my parents to fit into any kind of stereotype either so I just always acted like me. Gendering never really took over like it does for most people I guess.

05-12-2011 at 10:51 PM

I often question myself. I tell people Im bi-curious. Ive never been with another girl, but I would like to try it.

05-4-2011 at 3:59 AM

Oh yes, but never dated anyone of the same sex... yet.

05-1-2011 at 1:15 AM

I think this is an interesting topic to bring up.<br /> <br /> It's taken almost twenty years to full come to with, and accept, all aspects of my sexuality. I've always known about and been comfortable with my interest in guys. So it was because of that I threw myself under the label of gay. But it was my appreciation of ladies that I have had a hard time, not so much coming to terms with, but accepting. I finally accepted it earlier this year. <br /> <br /> But when people hear this, they automatically assume I'm bisexual. That's not the case, however, just because I appreciate both sexes. I'm drawn to men in an emotional and sexual sense, but I'm only drawn to women on an aesthetically shallow and emotional basis. And all that being said, I don't want sex with either men (or women, quite clearly). It's not because I don't have a sex drive, I do, but actual sex, in my mind, is...odd and gross (for lack of a better word).<br /> <br /> I don't identify with a sexuality label anymore and I've come to realize that sexuality is nothing but a preference that's apt to be very fluid.

04-27-2011 at 1:16 AM

Talespin, that sounds like my life right now XD<br /> <br />

04-26-2011 at 11:06 AM

Just thought I'd jump into this. I'm asexual too. I remember being called weird for never dating, ever, by the time I was 18. I remember hating how all of my friends started to get into "cute guys" and I just couldn't relate (I couldn't have related if the subject was cute girls, either) Honestly, I love both females and males...just not in a sexual way. I have guy friends and I have girl friends. I love them all the same. Love is love, and love doesn't HAVE to be sexual. :)

04-26-2011 at 12:01 AM

Im bi..I dated a girl for 3 years :p Girls know how to do things guys dont so....But you really have to love the guys too,know what im sayin.?Mos of my friends and I just like to have a good time and get kinky xD

03-21-2011 at 6:35 AM

I feel like if you feel like you have a connection with someone you shouldn't put a label on it. I'm straight and I've only been with men, but I've had this forever crush on one of my female friends, if she'd ask me out i'd say sure. I check out girls too. but i still consider myself straight. You should love and be with whoever you want without being labeled :)