01-3-2013 at 9:08 AM

Minors who are caught in the 18+ forum are promptly dealt with, I can assure you :>

01-2-2013 at 11:43 PM

I think some young kids are getting in here. :x I mean I suppose it's the parent's fault for not watching their kids online, and the kids fault for not following rules. Oh well.<br /> <br /> Sex for me, right now at least, is wonderful. I am with a very attentive and passionate man. :) However, the first man I had intercourse with was not the same unfortunately. Don't rush to lose your virginity boys and girls!

11-12-2012 at 8:09 AM

I consider P in V or P in A to be sex. I am only into male partners so using toys can be sexual but if neither of us is using our parts on each other's parts then its more like foreplay to us.<br /> <br /> I enjoy it a lot with clothes on, like quickies, but any time. Of course my partner is the opposite *sighs*

11-11-2012 at 11:51 PM

Sex to me is P in A, P in V, P in mouth, V in(on?) mouth, etc<br /> I don't consider hand.jobs to be sex because.. I dunno :V That's more masturbation... but oral is oral sex.

11-11-2012 at 10:38 PM

I find it always interests me what different people constitute as "sex".<br /> <br /> For some, it's standard P in V. Or P in A. For some, hands and mouths count as sex. And there are so many other definitions out there.<br /> <br /> I find for myself the lines are particularly blurred because I'm a lesbian who's active in the BDSM community, so often when I'm with a lady friend doing a scene it can be hard to define whether we're actually having "proper sex" or not. By one definition we've had sex dozens of times, by another only a few, and by yet another we haven't at all. <br /> <br /> It's an interesting question to think about. What defines "sex" for you? What acts/amounts of clothing must be present or absent for it to be considered sex? <br /> <br /> I almost never encounter two people who have the same definition of what sex is. What do Ala folks think?

07-25-2012 at 6:17 PM

07-25-2012 at 6:16 PM

My sex experiences are the best. I lost my virginity a few years ago to my best friend. We were dating a year before, but we were still extremely close friends (we were like bro and sis) and trusted each other with that kind of stuff. Between sex and him fingering me, he got me off every single time.

07-10-2012 at 8:48 AM

According to this study: <a href="http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/21597671/ns/today-relationships/t/dissatisfied-ladies-tips-reach-big-o/">[LINK]</a><br /> Many women simply have never had an fun time, or have great difficulty achieving fun time.<br /> <i>"50-60% of women will never have an fun time via intercourse and will require eeporal stimulation to climax."</i><br /> Apparently, medication and stress and whatnot can effect this.. and it's not all that unrealistic, people these days are crammed full of various medications and are stressed all to hell.<br /> Kinda sad. :(<br /> Then again, it's kind of similar to men with wet dreams, my friends get jealous when I say that I get them a couple times a month, but they have never had one. It all depends on the person, I wouldn't ever consider it abnormal or anything, just... sometimes it doesn't happen to people :P

07-9-2012 at 11:41 PM

yeah,,it is ..*feels weird talking about it* me and my boyfriend at the time(now an ex) did it a few times....the foreplay was nice... felt good ...but i never...how to say..never got off by sex...o.o....

07-4-2012 at 10:17 PM

the whole "seme" and "uke" thing irks the crud out of me. Especially in mangas when the ""Seme"" is drawn taller, cooler, and more masculine, whereas the uke is always more feminine. <br /> <br /> It's as if people dn't realize thats not how it works -.-<br /> <br /> But yea a little off track.<br /> <br />

07-2-2012 at 3:25 AM

it can be like that ;)<br /> but yeah, just never get involved with nothing you aint comfortable with. your dude/chick want to do something rough and you don't? tell em to gtfo. if they are cool, they will respect what you want :)<br /> not everybody likes rough s.hit, not everybody like soft s.hit, not everybody like bdsm and not everybody likes vanilla. <br /> <br /> I think a lot of fanfics and whatnot revolve kind of around BDSM and false "uke" and "seme" bulls.hit that yaoi fans spout lol <br /> <br /> i havent heard anybody that is gay that isn't obsessed with anime ever say "seme" or "uke". We use terms like dom/sub (not exclusive to gay community, but common in BDSM community) and top/bottom (not exclusive to gay community either, but much more common than in straight sex communities.)

07-1-2012 at 3:14 PM

You know what bothers me?<br /> <br /> I've been reading fanfics, and I've noticed that people describe/write sex in a very VERY weird way. <br /> <br /> Like, it seems like most of the time, I'm reading work from virgins and they write about sex as if it was some hot, angry, aggressive wrestling match. It kinda completely throws off any desire I have to do it.<br /> <br />

06-21-2012 at 6:23 AM

Zack, that's normal. I don't know one person that wants to fall asleep with sticky parts lol

06-20-2012 at 11:16 PM

I'm old enough and what I say is the truth

05-18-2012 at 7:00 PM

I always feel the need to take a show afterwards, don't know why

05-15-2012 at 7:17 PM

Giving a just b.lowjob in a shower is like getting waterboarded<br /> <br /> as for funny/weird sex locations?<br /> A walk-in closet.

05-15-2012 at 2:41 AM

I wonder why no body talks about the funny, awkward, sometimes mortifying aspects fo sex? <br /> <br /> Ah the shower. What a place to have such an awkward time. The lighting? Not the most pleasant where I am. The "energy saver" bulbs make everyone look very...chalky and pale. The confined space makes it less than appealing when your husband is 6'4" and has leg problems so it's hard for him to stand for any given amounts of time. Then there's the question of "Exactly how in the hell am I supposed to position myself around him??" It's a clumsy mess. Water's in your face so you're constantly wiping it. Probably the least romantic spot to do it. <br /> <br /> Imagine trying to squeeze some late night nookie in with your man while your roommate is in the other room, absolutely no door and a very thin wall separating him from the two of you? Oh the joys of living in a studio apartment.

05-9-2012 at 10:00 PM

Blaaah I'm afraid of sex.<br /> <br /> It seems both terrifying and wonderful at the same time.<br /> But I'm paranoid about everything, so of course this would be no exception.<br /> <br /> Just the slightest mention of people saying it hurts freaks the daylight out of me.<br /> It's funny, though, because I'm not really afraid of pain. I horseback ride and have taken some bad, painful falls. I get over them, though. When my muscles are sore, I don't take pain meds.<br /> But for some reason the though of sex hurting scares me.<br /> <br /> /nerd

04-18-2012 at 10:49 PM

Probably.. <br /> <br /> ||||||||||||||||||||||<br /> <br /> Hey Greek, you don't need to prove anything to us ^^. If you haven't done anything that's fine and if you have, it's not going to make you seem cooler =) Its just another aspect of life is all. It does appear though that you seem to be under the age of being allowed to post in here ^^;<br /> <br /> ||||||||||||||<br /> <br /> Yeah clay.. I just.. xD

04-18-2012 at 9:34 PM

I'm going to assume someone below the age of 18 who can't behave maturely?