09-8-2011 at 1:00 PM

I hate cheating... I will never take a guy back if he cheats on me. It's bullpoop.. I already have issues connecting with people and frayed emotions when it comes to that stuff so if he cheats I'm out. End of story. Luckily I'm with a guy now who absolutely hates cheating. He was cheated on by his ex who also got MARRIED When they were still dating. And she didnt even tell him.... so yeah. We've been together for almost 4 years now :] I love him ^^

05-14-2011 at 8:35 PM

My dad cheated on my mom for over a year. The woman he cheated with had 3 girls, they called him dad. He missed my birthday because he was there with them. He stayed nights and no one knew (my dad was a truck driver, it was easey for him to cover up what he was doing) until my dad got majorly hurt. They where on a date, they where rideing in a horse and buggy, they got hit by a drunk driver. It killed the horse on impact, the drunk ran over my dad, he had pushed that woman out of the way. When my mom got to the hospital, the nirces wouldnt let her in, told her he was with his wife. You can just imajon the sean in the hospital. Dad can walk luckley, doctors dont know why, the last 4 vertabray in his back shattered. Dad fells horable for what he did and it was all because he "thought she hated him" <br /> <br /> My parents are still tougher, my mom dosent trust my dad for ovious reasons. Dad cant talk to another girl without being accused of cheating now. Shes constently asking where he is going.<br /> <br /> Some relashionships can survive one partner cheating, Some relashionships cant. It only matters on how hard they are both willing to work to make it work.<br /> <br /> If i where in my mom's shoes, i wouldnt have taken him back. He had new family with kids that where calling him dad and they wernt his. He abandonded his family for a new one. He presented himself as her feoncay, They had plans to get married. Dad was done with us.<br /> <br /> No dont take back cheaters. Even if you THINK you can move on from it, there will always be a level of trust you will never have again. Both of my parents are unhappy married. But there both to dang stubern to get a devorce.

05-14-2011 at 1:58 PM

I think cheating is the absolute worst thing you can do to someone. I will not ever cover for a cheater and if I found I was cheated on there would be no second chances. You simply do not share something so personal about yourself with another person if you are in a committed relationship. <br /> <br /> Once a cheater is ALWAYS a cheater. I don't care what people say about how people can change. False. Doesn't matter who or why he slept with someone else. He made the choice to be untrue to his girlfriend. <br /> <br /> Now, what I said about does not hold true if the couple mutually decide that they want to sleep with other people or add more people to their relationship. I do know people who are very happy couples who just enjoy sex and do so with multiple people. While it isn't for me I can understand and respect it and it doesn't fall under the category of cheating for me. <br /> <br /> For people who are committed to each other and only each other though... my statement stands. Hell freaking no she shouldn't take the dirt bag back. I don't care if he is hot or not. Kick him to the curb and leave him there... hope a car hits him as she walks away.<br><br><br /> If the girl he cheated with KNEW he was taken... she is equally as disgusting as he is. I literally won't be friends with someone who cheats on their significant other. If they are willing to hurt the person they love most in the world... that doesn't leave me in a great place as a friend in my opinion. I am aggressively against cheating.

02-25-2011 at 11:11 PM

Cheating is deplorable.<br /> It's a really cruel thing to do to someone. If you don't want to be with them and wish to be with someone else, leave them for the other person. At least it's not cheating if you actually QUIT the current relationship before going out with someone else. But most don't even have the sense of decency to do that. =/<br /> Not only is it emotionally harmful, but physically as well. What if you pick up a disease and give it to your partner? That would be awful.<br /> So no, I'd NEVER take someone back if they ever cheated on me.

02-4-2011 at 2:52 AM

I don't know what I'd do. I hope Devon never cheats on me :/ how would it be fair for him to if we've already had sex like, 20 times? Lulz.

01-20-2011 at 7:17 PM

I wouldn't bother to take somebody back who couldn't bother to keep it in their pants for another week. I've got morals. <br /><br />(Clearly this Fernando person doesn't care much about his two-year relationship with the girl!)

01-20-2011 at 4:46 PM

Okay hold up. He cheated on his girlfriend because SHE was on her period? Or because the <font color=red>[Censored]</font> was on her period? [lol weird fetish but w.e floats his boat]<br /><br> If he cheated because he has a period fetish, he's a skeeze.<br /><br> If he cheated on his girlfriend because SHE was on her period, he's an impatient, immature skeeze.<br /><br>My opinion? No, she shouldn't take him back. He's obviously not human enough to wait a week or so, so he roams and humps legs because he can't control himself? Pathetic.

01-19-2011 at 1:32 AM

I think it's in the same vein as "I can call myself a "skank", you can't" or "I can call myself a "fag", you can't" depending on your particular situation.<br /><br />Still. Do not tolerate cheating.

01-18-2011 at 10:47 PM

Eh, I'm still not really a fan of the term, in general. /shrug<br /><br />But that's not the point of this story. xD

01-18-2011 at 9:25 PM

No, the girl literally calls herself a slut. She wants one night stands. She will not continually sleep with the same man.

01-18-2011 at 6:57 PM

Yeah. I find it quite the double standard that if a girl goes out and owns her sexuality, she's a "slut" <br />But all the girls want the player? <br />Lawl.

01-18-2011 at 6:46 PM

I actually agree with ZJ: even if she did know, and even if she sleeps around a lot, it's not as if she forced him into sex.<br /><br />Plus, the word "slut" is sort of offensive in most cases, anyway.

01-18-2011 at 6:11 PM

Get it Geist, get it!

01-18-2011 at 9:39 AM

Generally if someone's cheating without a semi-valid reason (ie: so is being emotionally withdrawn, ltd relationship issues, sig others withholding/cannot have sex for long periods of time) the relationship is doomed. Time to end it. There are instances where cheating happens where it can be forgiven - see things listed above.<br /><br />Petty reasons like the period thing - which messy as it is, people have sex while the blood thing is going on - just mean it's more of a doomed relationship.<br /><br />However, on the other hand, I'm not sure if using the word "slut" to describe the person he cheated with is correct. Did this person know the guy was cheating? Does it really matter if she's easy? It's nit-picky but are you really going to call her the 'slut' like she's the reason he cheated? Don't use the negative connotations on her, it's him you oughta go after with a spoon to remove his testicles. He's the one who cheated. He wasn't seduced or find an "easy" opportunity, he wanted to cheat because he used a stupid excuse. He could've slept with anyone in the world, he just came across her first.<br /><br />Then again, I don't know her, so chances are she could be a 'slut' in the negative way.<br /><br />Anyways, sorry about the last bit, it's a personal rant because it's the cheater you oughta be blaming, not the person he used to cheat with.

01-18-2011 at 6:06 AM

Absolutely not. If all it takes is something as small as menstruation to drive him to cheat, he's clearly not mature enough to take that promise ring seriously. A relationship is a relationship, and trust is trust, with or without some cheap piece of metal hanging on your finger.<br /><br />Plus, as Geist pointed out, it was likely just an excuse. If he doesn't have the guts to even talk to his significant other about something as serious as "I am dissatisfied with our relationship," then he certainly isn't the type of person you should give a second chance.

01-18-2011 at 4:22 AM

Damn, Geist. Damn.

01-18-2011 at 3:47 AM

01-18-2011 at 2:39 AM

Paradox, I'm in the exact situation. I dated the kid almost two years ago, and we continue to hook up.<br /><br />Except he's never been good to any girl he's dated (including me), I don't think he's been faithful to even one person. And I'm not going to help change that because I feel bad. 99.8% of his girlfriends are possessive and think they're hot <font color=red>[Censored]</font> (most of his more recent girls are high school freshman, so they're quite a bit younger than both of us, I find it hilarious that they think "OMG, he's soooo hot, he is leik TEH ONES!22!!1 IM gunna marry him!!2111") They also naturally hate me because he keeps coming back to me. It's okay, I was the same way. <br /><br />But cheating is...weird. I've only cheated on one boyfriend. But I wanted to again and again. <br /><br />It's not something anyone who's started is likely to stop. If I /ever/ found out a boyfriend cheated on me, I'd drop him.

01-18-2011 at 2:25 AM

So Im generally not the kind to give advice however I figured the other side needed representation. <br /><br />I have been sleeping with a close mate of mine for over a year. Were good mates and nothing else. He is without fail the biggest <font color=red>[Censored]</font> I have ever come across. <br /><br />However I have seen him when he gets a girlfriend, he will do anything for them, drop everything for them. Be the honest to god most amazing guy around. <br /><br />Then he sleeps with someone else. Now im not trying to condone it, but considering I have been the one he cheats with on a few occasions. I can honestly tell you it is just sex to him. It doesn't change the way he feels about the girl, it doesn't stop him from being absolutely amazing. Its just sex. <br /><br />Perhaps I have greatly different views from everyone. But sometimes a relationship goes beyond this constant tied down commitment. If he keeps coming home to you, and if he keeps you happy . . . .

01-17-2011 at 11:27 PM

Being honest, No I wouldn't haha. Not that I'm afraid he would cheat again but if your going out with such a guy, and he is to easily infatuated by other females it might take some time before he can stick forever to one (or never).<br /><br />I think that made no sense :D