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Alcemistnv [567 candy corns]
#3906 • 426 views
Posted: 2011-09-14 23:16:51
#9121
What the Hell?!
EDIT: So I stopped hanging out with the group in this scenario and I have new, better friends. and a new guy :D
So, as you know, I'm a freshman in college and currenlty have only been here for 3-4 weeks. So, we have a group, and there are about 10-15 of us at any given time. Well, there is ONE boy, ONE who all the girls feel the need to cling onto. Now, yes, maybe I might like him, but I'm not getting pissed because another girl is with him!
Yesterday he gave me his sweater because I was sick and cold. This girl (who knew him only 2 weeks onger than me), lets call her A, feeels that he belongs to her and that no one else can be with him. She flirts with him and he doesn't like it. She asked me yesterday if I was wearing his sweater, and when I said yes, she tried to pull it off of me!!! She told me that she thinks the boy hates her and I told her, no, but when I leave the room, i find out that a group of kids, plus him, are talkign about how she is actively flirting with him and how she behaves as if she hates US. I don't have a side between her and the other group, but that sweater thing ticked me off.
And there is another girl, let's call her B, and she likes the boy too. She will literally flash him by having her shorts ride up or wearing really low cut shirts. And she hates it that I'm with him. HATES it. She has been talking behind my back, they have to whisper to each other whenever me and him are together, and I don't mind, but when my roomate gets involved, it kinda irks me.
So just now, I'm sitting in my lounge and they wanted to play scrabble. I tell them that I want to take the couch because I'm on my laptop and the outlet is on the floor. Plus, it provides me a place to put it down when it gets REALLY out. There are more than enough chairs in the room, and she literally takes the couch after I say so, and gives me a "I don't give a f***" look and completely ignores me. Where am I right now? sitting on a dirty lounge floor that smells like crap with a laptop that is burning my leg.
So yea, maybe I do like this boy, but I'm sorry, I am not possesive in anyway, but this is ridiculous. Whoever knew that a boy brought the worst out of girls? Besides, she's a total bitch. And I KNOW he does NOT like her. But all this is bothering me because I'm ending at the buttend of all this.
PLLLLEEEAAASSEE I need advice before I punch someone in the face. And please, nothing like, "talk it out." If I talk it out, I will hurt someone. I'm thinking about sleeping over in his suite just to get back at them. Oh, and no comments that are telling me I'm in the wrong. These are just the most recent things that happended to me, seeing as how I can't fit EVERY single one in a post. So, yes, I do deserve to feel like this when all I want to do is enjoy my day without having to deal with possesive future wives.
(Yes, this is not your typical Al. Sorry to inform you of that.)
Replies
Surviving Koi
#68937 • 2011-11-15 05:13:21
#68937
Word of advice, having a relationship during your first year of college may not be the wisest thing. The first year is about finding out who you really are and the path you wish to follow.
Alcemistnv [567 candy corns]
#60221 • 2011-09-27 20:20:41
#60221
yea<br /><br /><br />Well, another girl, who is a friend of ours, randomly starts to stick to him like glue. We realized that she might be the one that he goes with. :/<br /><br /><br />Meh, I guess its worthless trying to fight her since she's so nice but it gets aggravating when she won't let anyone else talk to him.<br /><br /><br />Well, I guess I'll try hard for the parkour kid who has a wonderful sense of humr, hilarious when drunk, and amazing overall XD
Jusтιces
#60201 • 2011-09-27 18:06:06
#60201
You know, people like that are B*tches...
Jagheart
#58590 • 2011-09-16 18:36:50
#58590
tell the girl what you think of her and to back off
Alcemistnv [567 candy corns]
#58568 • 2011-09-16 11:14:59
#58568
So... I got t wear his jacket again last night. I actually buttoned it up and wore it for a few hours while he hung out at our dorm. Girl A basically knows now that he doesn't like her. She was leaning against him and he moved away. I leaned on him myself but that was because we were watchign soemthing and she was sitting in front of me, so I had to lean against him to see. <br /> <br /> I love this friendly relationship we have ^^<br />
Alcemistnv [567 candy corns]
#58463 • 2011-09-15 09:47:39
#58463
Ni, it's funny because they do the same thing. They take his phone nd take pics of themselves and once they set it as his picture on facebook.<br /> <br /> But, I'm the only one who has really recieved affection from him, and he makes a very comfy pillow to lay on :)<br /> <br /> And that lasst note of yours was amazing <3
Nitrous
#58458 • 2011-09-15 03:33:24
#58458
I'm in a similar situation. The unfortunate part is, I'm like three years younger than these girls, as well as him. <br /> <br /> The key is, don't be possessive, but be <i>assertive</i>. I have three girls slobbering all over the guy I'm crazy about (which he is aware of, and returns the feeling) and the worst part is watching them post all over his facebook "aww, you love me!", they'll hack his account and tag their selves in a post saying "'girlsname', will you marry me?", "I bought 'girlsname' a ring!" and that kind of dumb sh*t. It's just really disrespectful and pathetic. <br /> <br /> So I combat that by going on his wall and telling him I'm doing something nice for him (I chose baking cupcakes!), to which a girl responded to by posting "OMG, remember that one time, we did that one thing and it was soooo awesome?! We're awesome, don't you think!?" on his wall until the comment was off the first page. <br /> <br /> But you know what? He loved the cupcakes, and I scored some points with his guy friends. Always something you want to do!<br /> <br /> I don't know why, but girls can be straight up psychopathic over guys. It's really quite strange. <br /> <br /> But I know that no matter what these chicks try, at the end of the day (TMI Inbound)...I'm the one who's banging him. ;)<br /> <br /> Keep your chin up!
Next time A lays a hand on you, slap charges on her for assault. Problem solved.<br /> <br /> My tendency to overreact aside, I think since the guy is aware of the situation, he needs to tell these brats to stop acting like nine-year-olds.<br /> <br /> Alternatively, next time A or B does something like this, look her in the eye and say "You know, I think it's very sad that you can't handle this like a mature adult" and remove yourself from her company.<br /> Personally, I wouldn't have taken the floor in that last incident. I find that calling a seat before everyone sits down, then sitting in it whether it happens to be occupied or not is an effective way of getting people to move.
