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Bobbie
#1625 • 255 views
Posted: 2011-08-25 22:46:21
#8873
Problem with little sister.
My little sister, 13, is in my opinion, perverted.
And now she wants to go visit some boy from school, and mom said no. Mom said he can come over to our house, if he wants to. My sister said this would 'mess up her plans'.
Knowing my sister, this is a cause for alarm.
She is obsessed with sex, and has openly blurted it out at me, but I don't think she has the faintest idea what 'safe sex' or 'birth control' are, because she learned everything she knows from mature roleplays on the internet. My mom doesn't want to be a parent and have that talk with her, and I would probably get in serious trouble if I try to educate her, and she would probably say "whatever, I know this stuff."
I don't have the willpower or self control to deal with a money black hole that screams, poops, and eats 24/7, and we live in a 1 bedroom apartment. We also can't afford it, we barely pay the bills. I also have no way to move out, and no friends I can live with. My sister is far to young, and her life would be ruined by a kid, who she is almost certainly incapable of caring for, for emotional/mental reasons.
Any advice on avoiding this disaster are appreciated.
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Steaks
#55992 • 2011-08-29 07:08:02
#55992
<i>"By all means, teach her to be safe, but don't tell her she can't or that she should wait if she's ready, because I promise you, she WILL go out and do it. "</i><br><br>I fully agree
Nitrous
#55977 • 2011-08-29 00:05:23
#55977
I certainly don't think your sister is "perverted". I lost my virginity at 14. My first boyfriend lost his as a fifth grader. It's not at all uncommon, and it could certainly be worse. (At least she isn't doing meth?) <br /> <br /> But you know what? My parents never went the "sex is baaaad!!!" route with me because it's really not. I never felt the need to "rebel" so to speak, because as long as I was safe, they had no problem with it. I've always been clean and never had a scare. <br /> <br /> Once you do it, it's not that special, and if she's not being harped on about how "evil" and "sick" it is, she'll realize it. <br /> <br /> By all means, teach her to be safe, but don't tell her she can't or that she should wait if she's ready, because I promise you, she WILL go out and do it.
Bobbie
#55681 • 2011-08-27 17:28:36
#55681
Ok I'll try that, but she never even looks at lolcats I send her links to.
Steaks
#55679 • 2011-08-27 17:19:17
#55679
Well that's good. Now, I mean I wouldn't try to crack down on her because all that really does [based on my experience] is cause the kid to rebel.<br><br>Try showing her episodes of Teenage Mom? <br><br><a href=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LEjiM0sESus rel=nofollow>[This show]</a>
Bobbie
#55677 • 2011-08-27 17:01:45
#55677
I met him yesterday, when my sister gave in, and they visited at our house instead. I now don't believe <i>this</i> boy is a threat in that way, however, I'm still concerned about the future.
Steaks
#55675 • 2011-08-27 16:34:56
#55675
Children do not learn consequences of actions until they're 20.<br>What this means is, your sister can say "having a child at 15 is cool" and you can say "no it isn't, it's horrible and this is why ___" but your sister will not fully understand why it's bad until she's 20. Tell your mom what your sister said about "ruining my plans" and maybe she'll get grounded or something. idk<br><br>Plus, do you know this boy? Have you met him? He could be a 50 y.o "boy" from online.
I agree with katta. You need to have a girl to girl talk. Give her the statistics about teen pregnancy and such.<br /> <br /> Don't let her make a mistake. Seeing as how you are conscious of her descions and her way of thinking, you might put guilt on yourself if he becomes pregnant. She has more than enough time to have sex. Speak to your mom about it as well, so she can have some parental support.
Bobbie
#55321 • 2011-08-25 23:01:36
#55321
Female, and 20.
Katta
#55320 • 2011-08-25 22:59:57
#55320
Not knowing you, may I first ask if you are male or female?<br /> <br /> If you are female, I would suggest that you still try to explain things to here, even if you will get in trouble. Better to get yelled at now than 9 months down the road in my opinion,
