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Pets- Cremation or burial?

I know personally that I like cremating my pets(although being only 19.. I only have two pets that have passed and kept), I get extremely insulted when people come up(especially family) and say to me 'Why not just toss your pet under some dirt instead of spending more money on the thing?' Which I have been said to, exactly like that.. Or when family members really close to you don't remember which pet passed away that was like a family member it the pet's own right.

I almost lost my two animals today that I was going to cremate, my mother was storing them along with her previous cat, and she had her electricity shut off. She was using a power cord from her neighbor's to power her TV for her dogs but couldn't be bothered to use the extension to put the freezer she had the animals in on so they didn't decay or anything. She's a very confusing person and never makes sense, ever. I turned into an emotional mess once I knew my pets were in danger of not being salvageable for cremation so I made tons of frantic phone calls to family members all saying that they didn't want dead animals(pets or otherwise) in their freezers and they most certainly wouldn't help me to get a freezer to use.

That left me with only my aunt and uncle that had already gone way above and beyond for me. They told me that if I wanted to get them cremated, they'd hold them until I could afford it. It broke my heart, apparently my mother had her electricity shut off three days before I found out. All the meat she had stored was rancid and my animal's boxes were just horrible but they didn't smell which was a gift from god I'm sure.

I was so close to these animals in life, and even though it's just a body now I can't seem to part with that either I suppose. I've buried pets before, but my bond was never as strong as it was with these two pets. There was a third pet that I completely regret parting with, I wish I took her and kept her until I could cremate her too even though we only knew each other for a few months until her untimely passing.


So what do you like better personally? Burial or Cremation? Why do you like that "method", what makes it so special?

There is a third option, taxidermy/freeze drying. Would you ever consider that?

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For me... I would do either cremation or taxidermy. My current dog has been with me for close to 10 years and is my lifeline in times of need. I would love to have him forever with me. More than likely, I'm going to go with Cremation, mainly for the fact that I found a site that will make necklaces or bracelets from the ashes of loved ones. I'm going to end up doing that with his ashes :3
I'd want mine cremated so I could have the ashes. Taxidermy feels... wrong. In my opinion, it's almost like intruding on the animal's rights. I know I wouldn't want my body displayed in my family's living room! I know a lot of you are for taxidermy, and I respect that. It's just not my cup of tea.
id prob just keep the bones after burying them.
I'd go with taxidermy if it was a pet I really loved. If I could see them I'd fell like they were still with me, even if it was just their body.
@Titanic Quarter - IDK what your vet did but all the vet's I've worked for, the ones that weren't sent off for private cremation or the body retained by the owner were sent off for communal cremation, where they were cremated with a whole lot of other animals.
I'd go with taxidermy if it was a pet I really loved. If I could see them I'd fell like they were still with me, even if it was just their body.
@Inno - Our pet cemetery is local, so we can visit her grave anytime we want, thankfully. And it cost us about $250 to bury her. That included the "casket," grave site, and tombstone. It's basically like a human cemetery, but with people's pets instead.<br /> <br /> @Kandee - As I said to Inno, our pet cemetery is like a human one. They don't throw pets in a big hole. Each pet has its own grave site, for which I'm thankful for. I like knowing Maisy is being buried properly. :)
I personally will have my pets cremated. I have nothing against burial (I burried a few pets in my mom's back yard when i still lived with her) i just dont know where all ill be living in the next forever and want to take them with me. My dad was cremated and currently lives in a blown glass urn in my mom's living room. My step dad's parents were cremated and he wants to be cremated as well.<br /> <br /> @Reverie: If you vet took care of it then your pet was taken and communally cremated by what ever company the use for cremation and the ashes disposed of along with all the other pets that the owners didn't want the ashes back.
Taxidermy is a great way to go, if you can find a skilled taxidermist who is artistically competent.<br /> <br /> And as for a pet's dead body, it's more.. A dead pet's skin rather than a true body. Think of furs you've seen that are very intact. It's like that, but placed over a form. :) People who have trouble grieving seem to find them very comforting.
taxidermy kind of freaks me out. If my pet has died i don't like the idea of having to walk threw a house with the dead animal still in it, even if its had taxidermy done. My sister had her dog cremated. She has him next to the family pictures (none of witch he is in)

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