Everyone always assumed I was bisexual. I consider myself straight but I still like to check out girls. But when I think about doing anything sexual with them I just get grossed out. I dont really like females in a sexual sense... I just find them amazing and beautiful. It's more an appreciation of the female form... not sexual at all.

... I double posted on accident :-/ The edit page didn't have a back button. I guess manually going back is a bad call.

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I used to question myself because everyone else questioned me. I wondered if they were right. Then I realized they were nuts and didn't know me. I am straight and always have been straight. The thought of any kind of relationship with a female makes me shudder. <br /> <br /> Everyone always thought I was gay because I am a huge supporter of gay rights, never wear girl clothes, and never did ANYTHING with the girls. Just felt awkward to me. Never understood why girls do half the things they do. I was never really pushed by my parents to fit into any kind of stereotype either so I just always acted like me. Gendering never really took over like it does for most people I guess.

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I often question myself. I tell people Im bi-curious. Ive never been with another girl, but I would like to try it.

Oh yes, but never dated anyone of the same sex... yet.

I think this is an interesting topic to bring up.<br /> <br /> It's taken almost twenty years to full come to with, and accept, all aspects of my sexuality. I've always known about and been comfortable with my interest in guys. So it was because of that I threw myself under the label of gay. But it was my appreciation of ladies that I have had a hard time, not so much coming to terms with, but accepting. I finally accepted it earlier this year. <br /> <br /> But when people hear this, they automatically assume I'm bisexual. That's not the case, however, just because I appreciate both sexes. I'm drawn to men in an emotional and sexual sense, but I'm only drawn to women on an aesthetically shallow and emotional basis. And all that being said, I don't want sex with either men (or women, quite clearly). It's not because I don't have a sex drive, I do, but actual sex, in my mind, is...odd and gross (for lack of a better word).<br /> <br /> I don't identify with a sexuality label anymore and I've come to realize that sexuality is nothing but a preference that's apt to be very fluid.

Talespin, that sounds like my life right now XD<br /> <br />

Just thought I'd jump into this. I'm asexual too. I remember being called weird for never dating, ever, by the time I was 18. I remember hating how all of my friends started to get into "cute guys" and I just couldn't relate (I couldn't have related if the subject was cute girls, either) Honestly, I love both females and males...just not in a sexual way. I have guy friends and I have girl friends. I love them all the same. Love is love, and love doesn't HAVE to be sexual. :)

Im bi..I dated a girl for 3 years :p Girls know how to do things guys dont so....But you really have to love the guys too,know what im sayin.?Mos of my friends and I just like to have a good time and get kinky xD

I feel like if you feel like you have a connection with someone you shouldn't put a label on it. I'm straight and I've only been with men, but I've had this forever crush on one of my female friends, if she'd ask me out i'd say sure. I check out girls too. but i still consider myself straight. You should love and be with whoever you want without being labeled :)