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Sexual Orientation

I was just wondering, has anyone ever questioned their sexuality before?
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Nahhh. Having sexual dreams about men/woman/trees/whatever doesn`t mean you`re sexually interested in it. I believe that sexual dreams symbolize strong feelings for things or maybe even curiosity.<br /> I`ve had straight sex dreams even though I`m 100% gay. I don`t feel any sexual attraction towards women.
Such an interesting thread. :><br /> <br /> I have always known that I was bisexual. Always. I have liked other girls in the same way I liked boys since Elementary School. <br /> <br /> Only about 5 months ago did I first encounter another woman who was interested in me, and we spent quite a lot of time together, as friends and as partners. I would have stayed with her, were it not for her severe emotional attachment to her ex-girlfriend.<br /> <br /> Men are attractive, women are attractive. Emotionally, mentally, and physically. Gender is an outward appearance. Who a person is on the inside, their heart and their mind, is what I would fall in love with. So how a person\'s body is made makes no difference to me.
Late repsonse! Haha xP I wish this board was more active.<br /> <br /> PigeonApokolips32: Dreaming about another woman doesnt necessarily mean you are gay or anything like that. It may just be way of being fascinated by it or it\'s just a way to discover what you like with yourself. The girl you dream about could represent yourself. Also, I dont believe psychologists can agree on what dreams are for or mean so.. it could actually just mean nothing! Who knows xD. <br /> <br /> \"not sure how two girls do it together and I dont really wanna know. Lol\"<br /> <br /> -Aside from that comment sounding below age-level, it didnt offend me. Im just going to say that Clay said everything. ^-^;; <br /> <br /> Overall response to this topic:<br /> <br /> I never felt much of anything to either sex. I might think \"oh hes cute\" or \"she has a nice chest\" or something like that but never \"oh my gosh hes so hot!\" I think I\'m more about the companion side of the relationship with maybe a few occasional fun sessions. First person I actually loved was a girl. We started out as friends and maybe a year or two into our friendship I started to wonder just how much I liked her. I already knew she was gay herself and I would play flirt with her and soon it became less of a \'play\' thing. Just as I was getting close to telling her how I felt, she had a rough night and broke down crying to me and told me that she liked me. She was upset because she thought Id never return the sentiments. I tried to tell her otherwise but she didnt quite understand what I was saying at first. Once I got it into her head, we stayed up a long time just talking and getting comfortable in our next step. We were such good friends that it didn\'t even feel that different except for the more physical side. <br /> <br /> So the only person Ive been with was her and I wonder what itd be like to be with a guy but no guys ever showed interest so never had a chance to see. I guess its hard for me to imagine it and how Id like it when I never had even a chance or had a guy flirt with me. Its more of a curiosity and the whole baby aspect. <br /> <br /> I still got time to figure everything out but I have a hard time seeing past her. Only time will tell!<br /> <br /> *Tried to take out all apostrophes so ala doesn\'t throw a fit! D;
*sigh* Sorry this is such a late response. I forgot about this thread. But I am 18. I didn't mean to sound so rude about my comment, I didn't think about it, it was just my natural response. I should've thought about how it would make other people feel when I put it there and I apologize for anyone who I've offended.
hahaha thank you clay xD
"(not sure how two girls do it together and I don't really wanna know. Lol)"<br /> <br /> Girls are abit more limited when it comes to basic sex<br /> They can do oral, [mutual] masturbation, "scissoring" and using strap-ons.
"(not sure how two girls do it together and I don't really wanna know. Lol)."<br /> <br /> Uhh. This is the 18+ board. For those of us who are 18+.
I gotta go with Ravenwolf89 on what she said. I'm straight, I've questioned my sexuality before when a girl in 8th grade whispered to her friend that I came across a lesbian because in gym class I kept getting the basketball for her whenever it would bounce away (being friendly of course). I think women are very beautiful (even some that have plastic surgery done to them can be beautiful although most end up totally distorted and uglier than before they got the procedures done). The curves, the figures. I like to draw women if I'm drawing people (which I rarely draw because I'm better with drawing animals but whatever, women are better to draw (for me)). When I think about it right now, doing anything sexual with a girl doesn't appeal to me. It kind of creeps me out. Haha!<br /> <br /> But I have, however, had a few really strange dreams where I've done sexual things to a girl or a girl has done sexual things to me but nothing beyond foreplay things (not sure how two girls do it together and I don't really wanna know. Lol). Makes me wonder why I'd have dreams like that when I'm straight and know for sure that I am. I also kind of have some sort of fascination with one of my best friends (who I've known since Kindergarten). She's beautiful and one of the dreams I've had, had her in it and I was making out with her. My boyfriend used to have a crush on her before we ever met or started dating. I dunno......she used to be a quiet, reserved girl but then she changed and is more daring and bold. Since she met her boyfriend. Since I last hung out with her in high school. I like the new side of her though. It's very daredevilish and it's wonderful >:3
I'm gay, I've always known I'm lesbian, but when I was a teenager I tried to be 'normal' in the sense that I tried to like guys in an intimate way. I've been with girls, been with guys, and I have to say that girls feel right and my partner is my world sexually, emotionally, mentally. She is my best friend and my life partner. So go with who feels right, don't base it on the sex of someone, and whatever you choose you'll be okay and you'll be right.
I question myself a lot... never been with a girl, but I am definetally bi-curious, if not bisexual.

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