what would it be considered if you like both males and females, HOWEVER, you have no interest in kissing/having sex with the same gender?<br /> <br /> thats my friends dilemna and he has no idea what to call himself XD

I experimented a few times - and I discovered that I like the same sex for their personalites, not for what gender. So - I am straight. Not les.

yea, XD<br /> <br /> I can say that I have, but it was always more of, "what would happen if..." Sometimes I tell myself that I'll start dating females if I can't find good enough guy. And I'm not looking for a husband, and I don't plan on one in the future, however, I just want ONE boyfriend in my life at some point to hold my hand and be there for me. <br /> <br />

I think you might be getting the responses you're getting because everyone has questioned their sexuality at some point. Almost everyone. XD &lt;3

I think I did chose the wrong title XD<br /> <br /> <br /> meh -.-<br /> <br /> Still, very interesting reposnes :D<br />

In retrospect.. I'm keeping this to myself, ahaha.

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Hahah, some clarity about whether this was meant to be in regards to sexual preferences or sexual identity may have been handy, but perhaps it should just be considered an open discussion, as both have been addressed.<br /> <br /> <br /> <b>Sexual & Gender Identity</b><br /> My sex is female and I'm comfortable with that; however, as far as gender, I'm fluid/non-binary.<br /> <br /> <b>Sexual & Romantic Preferences</b><br /> This too me considerably longer to figure out and come to terms with than the aforementioned.<br /> I'm physically attracted to everyone; male, female, and everything in between and beyond. The issue arises when it comes to the differences between romantic attraction and sexual attraction.<br /> I have no romantic interests in people who don't identify as male. Like sexual attraction, it's not a choice; I've tried it, it's just not there for me. I have no desire for a romantic relationship with people who don't identify as male (I think this excludes people who identify as queer as well as male, too).<br /> On the flipside, I have no sexual attraction to cis males. That is, men that were born anatomically male, and identify as being male. It doesn't gross me out, I still find them physically attractive, I just have absolutely no desire for intimate physical contact with them, of any sort. My current partner of three years has been the only exception to this.<br /> <br /> <em>It is an awesome time and makes no sense at all.</em>

I prefer not to label my sexual preferences as straight/bi/gay.. If i'm attracted to a person enough to want a relationship with them, it doesn't much matter to me whether they're male/female/trans or what have you. As long as there's mutual respect and attraction.. why should it matter? <br /> <br /> Love knows no bounds, right? :)<br /> <br /> I tend not to define myself either. I'm just me. And if people don't like that.. they can bugger off. I'm living this life to make me happy, not to make other people comfortable.

Personally, I've never questioned my own gender. I'm a female, was born a female, and I like it that way. :) It works for me.<br /><br /><br /><br />As far as sexuality, I'm pretty straight. I leave myself wiggle room. I've experimented before. Was an interesting change. <br /><br /><br /><br />Now that's not to say I'd ever date a girl, I just am not attracted to the personality of any girl I've ever met, not in that way. I could never be committed, I can't put two and two together in that respect. I'd treat her like a friend. <br /><br /><br /><br />But fun's fun, amirite?

I actually have thought I'm trans at times, to the point where I would feel better as the opposite sex. But I would never get surgery for it. I've gone back to identifying as genderqueer because it fits better, I think. I do have strong urges to bind once I get out of my house and to college next year.