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My ex did it first when he was ELEVEN! Isn't that crazy?

This whole conversation is hilarious. I wish the comments went latest to newest, not newest to latest. Easy to keep track. :L

your welcome...? XD

Thanks BunnyButt! Thats wat I will tell him! you rock!

Red panda, yes, if yu want kids you do, but dont feel uncomfortable doing it.<br /> <br /> If you dont want it, itswhoa there.

Well My BF wants to do it but I dont! He is always kissiing me and trying to do some pretty wacky stuff! I am a medium size girl so I am a little uncofrtable with my body! I know if I want kids I will have to do IT some time? Right?

I MUST have foreplay or nothing will be happening. I can not get in to the mood just willy nilly if my man whips it out. I need to be caressed and all that goodness, then the real fun can happen. I've never been able to pass on foreplay, I don't understand how some can do so.

"Even just spending time on foreplay to get you wet (which, for some reason, apparently not everyone bothers with)"<br /> <br /> Oh my god, this. :[

Oh yea, that is definitely true - some people are just naturally going to experience more pain than others. I suppose my (very long-winded) point was that, it can hurt a lot *less* if your partner is willing to spend the time to make you comfortable. Even just spending time on foreplay to get you wet (which, for some reason, apparently not everyone bothers with) will really really help. Lube, whether natural or not, is a wonderful thing :)<br /> <br /> Basically, listening, communicating, and being considerate are always useful behaviors. It's good advice for any kind of relationship/interaction, whether of a sexual nature or not.