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I hate kids

Sooo decided not to put this in the regular forums, on account of there are so many kids on Ala.

Anyway. I actually can't stand the kids in my neighbourhood, at all. They have absolutely no respect for anything. Cars, in particular. I can't even tell you how many times I've nearly hit a child playing on the road as I've come around a bend. Some of them don't even move when you honk the horn at them. They have zero situational awareness, and apparently were never taught road safety. Even scarier is the fact that the older kids, in their early teens/preteens are left in charge of watching children of three and four. Three and four year olds play on the STREET while their siblings kick footballs 10 feet away. They run out infront of cars.

Someone is going to get killed. It's not like they stick to the nice wide straight bits, either. Some of them even play a game that involves throwing things at cars. And the thing that really baffles me is, how do their parents not realise the danger these kids are in? How can they be so irresponsible and not supervise their children? It's only a matter of time before someone is hit by a car, but that shouldn't have to happen for some basic road safety to be taught.

And another thing... One little girl happened to be riding her bike past when I was unloading my birds from the car. She followed me into my house. I was quite happy to let her look at the various animals I've got, but she started trying to open cages without asking.

At one point I was feeding one of the soft release birds (birds who are living wild but come back for support feeds) and she ran downstairs to where my rats were and got out one of my rats. That in itself was an idiot thing to do, as some of my rescue ratties can be a bit nippy and aren't keen on being picked up (let alone squeezed by a kid) but it is an absolute no-no when the birds are nearby, as my rats are perfectly capable of killing a young bird and will do it without hesitation. There's also the risk of spreading disease, as the birds are wild animals. I have strict washing-up procedures between handling any of the wild birds and then handling my pets.

Anyway, this kid just would not leave. And she keeps coming back, and knocking on the door, usually when I'm right in the middle of sticking a tube down something's throat. And she watches for my car. Most annoying thing ever, because she just won't get the hint that I have a lot of stuff to do.

I don't even think her parents know what she's doing. I could have been a pedophile, and all it took to lure her into my house was a pigeon, for crying out loud. And they don't even have a clue. When I was a kid we were taught not to approach strangers, certainly not alone, and definitely not to enter their homes.

/end rant about these kids today.

I feel so much better for having written all that down.

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"I don't even think her parents know what she's doing. I could have been a pedophile, and all it took to lure her into my house was a pigeon, for crying out loud"<br /> <br /> Honestly, that sentence made me giggle. XD I dunno why. I feel silly now. lol<br /> <br /> The only "kid" I can stand to be around is my friend's little sister. I actually look forward to her hanging out with us sometimes (usually in the summer when we're home from university and she's off from school), though she's getting older now and doesn't want to hang out with us as much I think. XD<br /> She's really awesome though, and she's pretty mature for her age. Plus she and her brother (my friend) have a very good relationship, which makes all the difference, since he doesn't mind having her around with us either. They're pretty close, since they were adopted together.<br /> <br /> Other than her though, kids over the age of five tend to get on my nerves. When they're still very young, they're still manageable (some, not all) and hopefully haven't picked up all the nasty little habits and traits yet like vandalism. :p<br /> I'll be teaching kids at an elementary school in Japan by the summer, hopefully, so we'll see how that goes. @__@<br /> <br /> Dae, that totally sucks. I don't like being the "bad guy" either, and that situation you're in would be so awkward for me. =/<br /> But she needs to know that you're super busy, which is the truth. Maybe let her know that some time when you're free you'll give her a call and she can come over? Or when you're free, just sit on your porch and wait. XD (I bet she'll see you and come running. lol) You'll be known as the person that attracts all manner of critters to your house, both child and animal. XD
Yeah, I think I'm going to have to be firm and tell her to leave. I hate being the bad guy!<br /> <br /> It's a pity, because I actually really enjoy getting to show people my animals and educate them a little bit, but there have to be boundaries. It's hard to explain that to a kid though.
(oops, forgot I was on my side account! It's Green Mountain GSD, in case that wasn't obvious)<br /> <br /> Alternatively, have you tried just straight-up telling her to leave? You've mentioned that you're hinting that you are busy and want her to go, but... it doesn't sound like she's been brought up with the best manners, so maybe those hints are totally flying over her head. And even tne brightest and most polite kids might still not understand hinting the same way adults generally do. You're in charge of the situation, so it might just be time to get blunt... even if it hurts her feelings, it'll help you get rid of her :D<br /> <br /> Although talking to her parents would be a good idea just because she doesn't seem to have any concept of "stranger danger"
I would suggest with the little girl, though, is taking the issue to her parents. What they do, however, is a different story, but that's totally inappropriate. And, if they don't do anything, I guess the only alternative is being the Big Bad Bitch and taking it to the police. At least, that's what the parents will think of you. But whatever, it isn't your job to babysit.
I've never ever had kids run into my house at random and I've never done that as a kid. That's veryyy strange and dangerous :(<br /> The rocks + cars thing? My brother did that for years. Cars never did anything so he thought he could keep doing it, then one time he threw a rock at the wrong car and the guy stopped, got out, picked my brother up and threw him in a ditch :)
I totally get what you're saying... but I think the main problem here is the parents. Parents who don't teach their kids how to be careful around cars. Parents who don't teach their kids about "stranger-danger." Parents who don't even want to bother looking after their kids, and let them run loose all over the neighborhood.<br /> <br /> I completely get where you're coming from, and the kids living around you sounds like they'd drive me insane, too!But what really gets me are these irresponsible parents who just have kids, without realizing that EVERYTHING about their life has to change once those kids are born. They can't just let the kid run around and raise itself! Parents who won't take full responsibility for their children, and put them and their upbringing first in all situations, really shouldn't be parents.<br /> <br /> Ahem. In my humble opinion XD
Yeah, it's crazy, huh? If I'd acted that disrespectful towards others as a child, my dad would have given me a well-deserved smack. <br /> <br /> The little girl came back again yesterday. I had a baby bird that has just come into care, incredibly malnourished. So I was trying to get some much needed nutrition into this dying baby, and all the kid wanted to do was look at all the other animals. It's just not acceptable. I ended up telling her I had to go down to the grocery store to get some food, which was true, but I'd intended to go much later. It's ridiculous I had to make excuses and leave my own house to get rid of her. Argh!
U r old nd dont undrstand us! we jus want 2 play wit your birds! meanie pants dae!<br /> <br /> <br /> *Ehem* Excuse me. But I totally agree with you. I see kids who act totally out of control, and their parents thing "oh, that's cute what they're doing!" People will bring their kids to the ambulance barn sometimes, and will run and pounce and beat on us. We're younger (aged 19-23), so parents think we want to play, when really we just want to relax.<br /> <br /> And Dae, sorry to say it, but those kids are going to keep running into the road until one of them gets hit and killed. It's not going to change. And I would make a huge stink if some kids were throwing stuff at my car. Like, call-the-police kind of stink. <br /> <br /> Sorry, Dae, I wish you luck. I think it's getting worse with every kid they push out. If I ever thought of acting that way, I would get a nice smack in thebottomand a ten minute time-out in the corner.
I have kids like that in my neighborhood. Some of them can't be any older than three and already, they come down to my house, ask my parents for food/drinks, use the pool and sneak in when we're not home, start messing with my pets and on occasion, STEAL THE HOUSE KEYS that we leave under the rock out front in case I needed to get in after school. We've had to replace several locks because of them. Idk if I was just a really aware kid or what, but, at that age, I'd be really embarrassed to just waltz into someone's house and start poking at things. I knew it was rude! Why don't they get it?
I really couldn't stand most kids, even when I was one. ^^

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